Flowers When You're Dead

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In 1900, King Hubert of Italy was assassinated. The countrywas new yet weak. The people were poor. The economic andpolitical future of Italy was uncertain. Two patriarchs with largefamilies emigrated from Italy to the United States in pursuit of theAmerican dream. Both men hoped for better lives for their children.They could almost smell World War I on its way.One father, Alonzo Manonero, prospered. He had three sonsand seven daughters born in the United States. The other father, Vincenzo Delfucho, relied on his children to support him in America.He refused to work his trade which left his family poor. In spite oftheir poverty, he fathered five more children born in his new home.In schools, the workplace, and even in the military, these Manoneros and Delfuchos faced prejudicialhatred. Slanders were hurled viciously at unwanted Italians who came to these shores at the turn ofthe century. Americans did not accept these immigrants, and often met them with violence, oppression, and even death.The families became one large clan when Ambra Manonero married Danelo Delfucho in Newark, New Jersey in 1942. They had two children. Their daughter Alicia was born in the summer of 1943and a son came in the spring of 1951. Alonzo Manonero owned two fourplex brownstones in Newark.With a unit for himself and his wife, the proud patriarch rented apartments to five of his ten children.Ambra, Danelo, and their children occupied one of these.In the fall of 1952, tragedy struck, a premonition of Ambra's youngest sister. Daniel L. Delfucho, the young couple's seventeen-month-old son, contracted polio overnight. The toddler suffered andnearly died. His survival was thought to be a miracle, despite the loss of Daniel's ability to walk.Danelo believed his son's disability was a curse on his long-held dream of raising a son to be aprofessional athlete.Flowers When You're Dead is a record of Daniel's life from birth through high school graduation.His untenable relationship with his father is offset by the loving ones shared with his over-protectivemother and troubled sister. Physical damage, a consequence of polio, kept Daniel close to home. Itlimited his contact with other children. As he grew up, Daniel was perpetually in the company of adults.His stories reveal the impact of polio on his life.Daniel's sedentary and sometimes solitary existence changed the trajectory of his life. The normsof childhood were not his to know. At an early age he was forced into options a healthy child mighthave ignored. This fictionalized memoir takes a long, detailed look at those options. It exposes theimpossible nature of Daniel's relationship with his father and his search for love from a parent whodid not have love to give.Italian immigrant families brought their food with them to America. Collected over the years, Daniel saved twenty old-world Italian and Italian-American recipes that can still be prepared today.In between meals, there are moments of high comedy, such as Daniel's attempt to become a Boy Scout.Another is a coffee klatch between the seven Manonero sisters as they attempted to plan a holiday.Yet another was Daniel's childhood caper to fill his piggy bank!Immigration issues are still problematic in America today. The persistent theme of Flowers WhenYou're Dead is the survival of Daniel's mother and how she protected her son. Not only from an abusivefather, but from the physical and emotional challenges in Daniel's specialized world. Follow these twoemigrated families and the author as they adapted. His relatives to American cultural attitudes andDaniel to an unexpected and indelible love.